In Christ Alone

Thursday, February 5, 2026

For my beloved Wildred (Bonny), on his 16th Heavenly Anniversary

Sixteen years ago today, Bonny, didn't leave. He was promoted to the heavenly land of glory.

Today, I'm not just remembering the day he was promoted. I'm celebrating the incredible man he was, the beautiful life we build, and the everlasting love that death could not touch.

I thank God for the gift of loving him and being loved by him. Though I still miss him, I hold onto the peace and hope that he is safe in His presence, whole, joyful, and home.

Raise a glass with me, families and friends, in memory of Wildred (Bonny) Khalil. A wonderful husband, a loving pastor and a true friend. He is so loved, he is so missed, and he is so very worth remembering.

Forever in my heart. Untile we meet again, in God's perfect time.


Sunday, February 5, 2023

Remembering the amazing man who brought so much joy to me and taught me many pecious lessons in life...


It has been 13 years since Bonny left this choatic world for the glorious land filled with the love, joy and peace of God.

The warmth of his hugs and the sunshine in his smiles continue to remind me of the love of God!

This picture was taken in Dec 2005 in Belgium when we visited our friends, the Dobson family, during our 10th Anniversary celebration travel in Europe.

Missing the presence of this wonderful man and envying the joy and freedom he is experiecing now in Heaven.

Friday, December 16, 2022

Remember Our Anniversary

 

The usual place and the familiar breakfast where we scheduled to have our anniversary breakfast if we were in Singapore.  

The operator of the cafe has changes but the environment remains the same.  Always makig it a point to come here either on this day or my birthday.


Saturday, March 19, 2022

You are remembered on your Bithday!

 

This was a Khalil's family reunion and Bonny's birthday celebration on 2004.  It was a joyous time!

I remember how you enjoy the love and attention given to you at your birthdays--just like a pure hearted child!

Missing you!

Saturday, February 5, 2022

Twelve years have passed, You will always be remembered!

12 years have passed so quickly, yet the warmth of Bonny remains as fresh as this morning.  

In this supercomplex and superfast changing world, the love of God and the memories God blessed me with Bonny remain unchanged.  They enrich and refresh me.  These memories help bring new perspectives on people and things around me.

In these past 12 years, I did not stay where I was as I know that Bonny wouldn't and would not want me to.  I learned new skills, travelled to new places, ventured out to try new experiences.  Though he was not there with me in all these new expereinces, I often felt that he, together with the Lord, was watching from above with his ever so warm and cheery smile.

Missing you, Bonny!

Friday, March 19, 2021

Bonny would have turned 65 today! Happy Birthday!

 If Bonny was still be here on earth, he would be celebrating his 65 Birthday today!  I remeber how happy he was when he bough his first Luo Han fish, also known as flowerhorn fish.   He named his first Luo Han fish as Boris.  

Today, I have decided to remember Bonny's 65 birthday by buying a baby Luo Han fish and named he Boris 65.😄  It is a beautiful fish with shinny patterns...




Friday, February 5, 2021

It has been 11 years...

Remembering an awesome man who brought much joy, laughter and warmth to me and those around him with his child-like faith, warmth, humour and cheekiness....while he was on earth.

It has been 11 years since he was called to his heavenly home where he can enjoy the presence of his Heaven Father without the distraction of the world...  Though 11 years have gone by, memories are still as fresh as yesterday.

Remembering how he changed from hating to stand in front of a camera to enjoying posting good and funny shots, some times imitating statues he was posting with....  Thank you, Lord for blessing me with Bonny who created those fond memories that make me laugh and smile still....