Remembering Bonny on our anniversary (16 Dec) from Israel

Spent some time at the Mount of Temptation where tradition believed Jesus spent 40 days praying and fasting when he was then tempted by the Devil.

Took a picture of Bonny's wedding watch given by me on the top of the mountain.  Then took picture of it with a carved shepherd and among some praying hands.

Remembering Bonny on Our Anniversay (16 Dec) from Israel

Visiting ancient Jericho where the walls came tumbling down when God's armies marched around it with praises!  Bonny would love to be here with me if he were still on this earth for he was such a warrior!  Nevertheless, I remember him on this day and glad to have his wedding watch with me.

Psalm 16

Remembering Bonny as I meditate on Psalm 16.  I remember one of the promises that gave Bonny the confidence to approach and ask me to his girlfriend in early 1995 was from this Psalm.  Psalm 16: 5-6 "O Lord, You are the portion of my inheritance and my cup; You maintain my lot.  The lines have fallen on me in pleasant places; Yes, I have a good inheritance."  I am not sure that is how one should interpret these verses, but at that time Bonny claimed that the Lord had spoken to him when he prayed for the Lord's assurance that I would not reject him but would marry him.  I believe it was his confidence in the Lord, in His word and in himself that won me over to accept and finally I married him. Missing him and his confident self in the Lord! 

2015 Love Singapore Season of Prayer

This July marks the 21st Season of Prayer started by Love Singapore Movement.  This season is 50 days  in keeping with Singapore's Golden Jubilee.  This was often a season that Bonny looked forward to and be energized.  I could never keep up with his zeal to be an intercessor and often wish that he was around to spur me on in my prayer life.  However, now is not a time to wish but a time to enter into intercession as a desire and a call from God. 

Pictures and objects of praying hands in his study room should be enough as constant reminders of the importance of connecting with God in prayers.

Remember the Roman Soldier in CPBC's 1994 Easter Cantata

As this year Easter weekend comes to an end, I thank God and remember Bonny who played the role of a Roman Soldier in CPBC's 1994 Easter Cantata 21 year ago.  We were just started dating then and he was a wonderful man--strong and caring,  Missing him...

Remembering Bonny on His Earthly Birthday

Recently I painted Bonny's study room and hanged up this poster which is one of his favourites.
As I remember him today on his earthly birthday, I want to remember him as an intercessor.  This poster really portrays the posture that Bonny was when he spent time in his study.  I know that he is joining Jesus now in heaven interceding for us who are here on earth.

Five years have passed, the pain of parting can still be felt...

Five years have passed so quickly.  Though the pain of parting can still be felt, I choose to celebrate the legacy Bonny (Wilfred) left behind as I take time to remember the love and joy that he has brought me.  He has left for me… a legacy of love... that life is to be lived and love is to be loved, and every opportunity is an opportunity to live and love.
When I think of the good times we had shared all those years, I can still hear his laughter and I can still see his smile.  I will always cherish the time God allowed us to share and will celebrate the life that was ours through the years.  I believe that one day we will be united again. 

This photo of him is one of my favourites.  It is as if he is looking down from heaven and saying to me, “Kim Lang, I am very proud of you, that’s the way to go.  Run and complete the race that the Lord has set before you!  I am in the front row of the cloud of witnesses and I am cheering you on!”