Remembering Bonny on our Anniversary

Remembering Bonny as I went to our usual Anniversary Breakfast place at Singapore Botanic Gardens this morning.  It has been more than six years now since he left for his eternal home.  Breakfast served was not as great as six years ago. Nevertheless, the place is still much the same except the minor renovation and the change of furnishing.

Bonny's Favourite Brand of Pants

I was walking around in a shopping mall and saw this shop with the big word "DOCKER."  Immediately I told myself that Bonny would love to go in.  There wasn't any Docker outlet in Singapore during the 1990's and I remember he bought a few of these pants from the States which he treasured a lot. 
I can imagine what Bonny's reaction would be if he were around to see this shop:-)

The Lord is Near...

I went for my silent retreat at Blue Mountain Kelong at Riau Islands at the end of April 2016.  It was the same place that I went at the end of July 2010, five months after Bonny departed for Heaven.  It was a good time of reflection for me and reflecting on my grieving journey.  The sea was still as  blue as six years ago and the place was still the same except for some improvements made to the facility.  The pain of not having Bonny around was still there though less intense.  As I surrendered all to the Lord, He displayed two rainbows as a affirmation of my decision.  The Lord was very close to me and wanted me to enjoy His presence and find peace and purpose while I continued to remain here on earth.

Remembering Bonny on His Earthly Birthday, 19 March

Today is Bonny’s birthday.  I went for trekking in the morning and could not help but kept looking up to the sky.  As I walked observing the clouds and the blue sky , I remembered my beloved and thanked God for those joyful times spent with him.  It has been six years that I did not celebrate his birthday.  It may not be that important to him now, but sometimes I do wish I had had planned a surprise birthday party for him.  He would have been delighted.

It has been Six Long Years...

Remembering and missing my Bonny today...!