Twelve years have passed, You will always be remembered!

12 years have passed so quickly, yet the warmth of Bonny remains as fresh as this morning.  

In this supercomplex and superfast changing world, the love of God and the memories God blessed me with Bonny remain unchanged.  They enrich and refresh me.  These memories help bring new perspectives on people and things around me.

In these past 12 years, I did not stay where I was as I know that Bonny wouldn't and would not want me to.  I learned new skills, travelled to new places, ventured out to try new experiences.  Though he was not there with me in all these new expereinces, I often felt that he, together with the Lord, was watching from above with his ever so warm and cheery smile.

Missing you, Bonny!

Bonny would have turned 65 today! Happy Birthday!

 If Bonny was still be here on earth, he would be celebrating his 65 Birthday today!  I remeber how happy he was when he bough his first Luo Han fish, also known as flowerhorn fish.   He named his first Luo Han fish as Boris.  

Today, I have decided to remember Bonny's 65 birthday by buying a baby Luo Han fish and named he Boris 65.😄  It is a beautiful fish with shinny patterns...

It has been 11 years...

Remembering an awesome man who brought much joy, laughter and warmth to me and those around him with his child-like faith, warmth, humour and cheekiness....while he was on earth.

It has been 11 years since he was called to his heavenly home where he can enjoy the presence of his Heaven Father without the distraction of the world...  Though 11 years have gone by, memories are still as fresh as yesterday.

Remembering how he changed from hating to stand in front of a camera to enjoying posting good and funny shots, some times imitating statues he was posting with....  Thank you, Lord for blessing me with Bonny who created those fond memories that make me laugh and smile still....

A Special Day -- 16 Dec...

This would have been our 25 Anniversary today.   There is a calendar reminder that was set at our 9th anniversary that has a yearly reminder set a week before 16 Dec every year. 

As before, I went to have a meal at Botanic Garden, a tradition we had if we spent our anniversary in Singapore.   I may be alone remembering it but I am not lonely as the Lord is with me.

The joy is to have wonderful memories to celebrate and be thankful....

The Lord is good to bless me with such a man who had helped to carve out beautiful memories of love and joy.

My birthday gift to Bonny many years ago...

March 19 is Bonny's Birthday.  I remember his child-like eagerness to discover what he would be given on his birthday.
This is a crystal eagle that I bought from Tangs and gave to him on one of his birthdays (I can't remember which birthday it was).  The delight on his face was a sight to remember...

It has been ten years....

It has been ten years....

The memory of Bonny (Wilfred) departed for his heavenly home on 5 February 2010, 5.09 pm, still brings pain to my heart. Though it hurts, I am truly thankful for the memories of love and joy this awesome man has brought into my life. He had taught me to let go and let God, he had demonstrated to me what it was like to have a child-like faith. His cheerful smiles, warm hugs and great sense of humour had added so much fun and laughter to my life. I have learnt to enjoy fun and forgive myself when I made a mistake because he had showed me how…

Though it hurts, I know there is no sadness as John of the Cross once wrote, "Death can hold no bitterness for the soul that loves.... There is no sadness in the thought of death when it opens the door to all joy. Nor can it be painful and oppressive when it i the end of all unhappiness and sorrow and the beginning of all good."

Our Anniversary...

I remember my beloved Bonny on this special day, 16 December.  This was the day 24 years ago when we said our vows to one another as we exchanged our wedding rings.  Though we are apart in two different worlds, we shall once again be together when we meet one day...